I will write prefaces to these journals, which will contain biographical material, and a future biographer may find them somewhat useful. It's just the way of the world. So I felt either they would leak out in one way or another or I could try to edit them to make them coherent. His second wife and widow Alison Douglas Knox died December 12, 2011. . Conversations about the past. . I come from a line of people who have private libraries. Her body was just a sore from the inside of her mouth to her toes. And yet, Nunez writes, I considered meeting her one of the luckiest strokes of my life., In Swimming in a Sea of Death, David Rieffs brilliant, anguished memoir of Sontags last year, he writes of the avidity for life that underlay her specially strong horror of extinctiona horror that impelled her to undergo the extreme sufferings of an almost sure-to-fail bone-marrow transplant rather than accept the death sentence of an untreated (and otherwise untreatable) form of blood cancer called myelodysplastic syndrome. 3 David Rieff, "The Cult of Memory: W hen H istor y Does More Harm Than Good ", The Gua rdian, March 2, 1916. If she had survived the bone-marrow transplant (as she had survived the dire treatments for two earlier bouts of advanced cancer), would she have been reconciled to dying of something else later on? Rieff asks. Add to Wishlist. She emerges from it as a person more to be pitied than envied. Nunez, who was twenty-three-year-old David Rieffs twenty-five-year-old girlfriend and lived in the apartment with him and Sontag for more than a year, stresses that the time Im talking about was beforebefore the grand Chelsea penthouse, the enormous library, the rare editions, the art collection, the designer clothes, the country house, the personal assistant, the housekeeper, the personal chef., Nunezs short book (its a hundred and forty pages) raises the ethical question that Nunez herself must have wrestled with: Is it ever O.K. Her first novel, The Benefactor (1963), is a very advanced kind of experiment in unreadability. . For the first 10 years of my career, that's indeed what happened. A bit of self-importance may be involved: the interviewee is flattered to have been asked to the party. People are very different in their lives and very different in their deaths. Nunez, in her memoir, set in the Straus period, wrote of the Riverside Drive apartment: Its main feature was the growing number of books, but they were mostly paperbacks, and the shelves were cheap pine board. Susan was very interested in being morally pure, but at the same time she was one of the most immoral people I ever knew. She was much more interested in experimental art when she was young than she became later in life. Another answer is that if I had her journals in my possession after she died, and they were simply mine to dispose of as I wished, I don't think I would have published them. David Rieff (/rif/; born September 28, 1952) is an American non-fiction writer and policy analyst. It wasn't long before Nunez moved in, beginning what would be a complicated relationship with both Sontag and her son. Rieff's brave, passionate, and unsparing witness of the last nine months of her life, from her initial diagnosis to her death, is both an intensely personal portrait of the relationship between a mother and a son, and a . I'm not a confessional person. I had to change planes at Heathrow Airport in London, so I called my mother. A pair of pliers sat on top of the TV setfor changing channels since the knob for that purpose had broken off. In Swimming in a Sea of Death, Rieff confesses that my relations with my mother in the last decade of her life. Do you insist on telling the truth when it's perfectly clear the person doesn't want to know the truth? Two years go missing. Was it a heady experience to get that kind of attention for a boy at your age? And I was too unwilling to pay that price, so it took me a long time to become a writer and pay that price, which I did. 1 of 5 stars 2 of 5 stars 3 of 5 stars 4 of 5 stars 5 of 5 stars. Treacherous, Eva Kollisch, a pissed-off girlfriend from the sixties, tells Moser, as if she had been expecting his call for half a century. But for the first time, their love affair is laid bare, as Sontag's son David Rieff admitted: "They were the worse couple I've ever seen in terms of unkindness, inability to be nice, held. It exacted a tremendous price. You write that it wasn't just that she desperately wanted to live, she was also terrified of dying. [7], Rieff has written about the Bosnian War. ------------------------------------------. Do you see it that way? I've also met lots of people who aren't. Coming out is at issue, in fact. When I asked her about one of her early critiques of the novel, in which she wrote, "I could not stand the omnipotent author showing me that's how life is, making me compassionate and tearful," she called that comment "juvenilia," and said, "It's really hard to be nailed to what one wrote 35 or 40 years ago." Author: David Rieff. What I've left out, people will be able to go to UCLA and read. He rightly identifies Mildreds remarriage to a man named Nathan Sontag, in 1945, as a seminal event in Susans rise to stardom. Sure. But I wasn't going to say anything more. In 1938, while in China, Jack died, of tuberculosis, leaving Mildred with five-year-old Susan and two-year-old Judith to raise alone. The son of Sontag and sociologist Philip Rieff ("pop," below), whom Sontag married at 17 then divorced in 1958, David has written a memoir of Sontag's painful final days. One of our more tiresome national cliches holds that the Irish can never forget while the . Mosers story of the good-looking young ex-faculty wife/Ph.D. So they were going to appear at some point anyway. . To be blunt, I took off her shirt. She gave me no instructions of any kind. I want to take the liberty of republishing here the latest missive from the journalist David Rieff, a man of the Left who despises wokeness, taken from his Substack newsletter, titled Desire and Fate. But why she became so celebrated, what the combination of elements were -- her public role in the anti-Vietnam movement and other political events; her looks -- I'm sure it was a complicated combination. "Heady?" And that may be because I didn't want to have a fight with somebody, because I didn't want to offend somebody, because I thought I'd hurt somebody's feelings, or because I just preferred that something not be known. Although Nathan did not adopt Susan and her sister, Susan eagerly made the change that, as Moser writes, transformed the gawky syllables of Sue Rosenblatt into the sleek trochees of Susan Sontag. It was, Moser goes on, one of the first recorded instances, in a life that would be full of them, of a canny reinvention.. Well, it sure doesn't help. And that's all I propose to say about Annie Leibovitz. But it does raise the question: Without the consolation of religion, does the prospect of dying lead to dread? In fact, I think once you write a book, it doesn't belong to you anymore. She refused to accept any consolation from the hope of an afterlife. Moser wheels on witness after witness who testifies to Sontags neglect of the baby and child David, and to her sometimes unwinning behavior toward him when he was an editor at Farrar, Straus. There is, but it's contained in that sentence. This was in the mid-'70s, a time when American physicians tended to lie to their patients and tell family members something closer to the truth. PARIS The decision by the U.N. Security Council and NATO to end military operations in Libya on Oct. 31 concludes what appears to be the most . The hardest piece of evidence that Moser offers for his thesis is a letter that Sontag wrote to her younger sister, Judith, in 1950, about her exciting new job as Rieffs research assistant. But I didn't want to write a book about my relationship with my mother, about her relations with other people, or a literary account of her work. But in the sixties Sontag struggled to survive as a writer who didnt teach. [Pause] I took it for granted in the world that I grew up in. She was a best-selling novelist and a singular presence -- the brainy, glamorous woman who held her own among the testosterone-filled intellectuals of the period. That Norman Mailer has orgies? You Save 24%. And over that decade, they had very high highs and very low lows. I felt lots of things, not all of them resting easily together. Yes, the library as well. By signing up, you agree to our User Agreement and Privacy Policy & Cookie Statement. They were. Fading superpower? She was somebody for whom extinction -- death -- was unbearable. She wanted to be lied to. You're wearing a John Lennon cap. I don't know whether you believe it or not. I knocked on the door. If friends cannot control their ambivalence, what about the enemies who cannot wait to take their revenge? . I think [her 1992 novel] "The Volcano Lover" is the best thing she ever did. Why is she going to pick up her son? That seems just right. in history in 1978. It turned out that if she wanted to try something rather than palliative care during the last months of her life, there was one possibility. Fortunately, I don't keep my journals. Sontag gave birth to David when she was only nineteen, and it gave her pleasure when, as a young adult, he was taken for her brother. And the idea that one is going to think the same thing at 68, or whenever you did the interview, as one did at 31 would suggest lack of growth. I mean, she didn't want to be lied to, but she wanted to live. Legendary photographer Annie Leibovitz opens up about her longtime partner, essayist Susan Sontag, in a conversation with "CBS This Morning" co-host Charlie . Get me rewrite! the city-room editor barks into the phone in nineteen-thirties comedies about the newspaper world. The marriage lasted eight years during which their son, David Rieffa writer and editor of his mother's personal journalswas born. I never thought about it. You have been a writer for many years, but to my knowledge, it's only been quite recently that you've written this directly about your mother. Simon & Schuster, 179 pages, $21. If the journals authenticate Mosers dire portrait, his interviews with friends, lovers, family members, and employees deepen its livid hue. One answer is because I'll probably do a better and more responsible job than someone who didn't know her. Thus the film scholar Don Eric Levine, a close friend of Sontags, is Mosers source for writing that when Jasper [Johns] dumped her, he did so in a way that would have devastated almost anyone. When I say "in spite of," what I mean is that when I saw that I still wanted to write in my early 20s, I thought very consciously, "Oh, if I become a writer, I will spend the first 10 years of my career having anyone who reviews a book of mine say, 'David Rieff, Susan Sontag's son.'" Although he wasn't a Christian, his work remains one of the greatest giftseven if a complicated and challenging oneto Christians living today. When you say "grace," it lets family members off the hook. But I can't control how people read a book. I have a habit -- a superstition, really -- of not calling people I'm close to while I'm on an assignment that could be dangerous. David Rieff. Education: Princeton University, A.B., 1978. He notes Rieff's "caution and misgivings", and finds especially compelling the essay where Rieff laments the gap between the misery and violence "outside the gates of the Western world" and the obstacles that prevent the West from assembling the strength, whether military or moral, to resolve the problems. Their children, Ethan and Tania, were my friends and contemporaries. David Rieff is a passionate fan of Early music, and his choices include the 16th-century composer Orlando di Lassus, and Alfred Deller singing Purcell. . David Rieff is an American non-fiction writer and policy analyst. By pushing the child Susan away and at the same time leaning on her for emotional support, Mildred sealed off the possibility of any future lightheartedness. In the last days, she kind of withdrew. . . I have the impression that this is the way your mother had to die. And he told her the bad news. Discover David Rieff's Biography, Age, Height, Physical Stats, Dating/Affairs, Family and career updates. I don't think that's a particularly strange or masochistic thing to say. There was tremendous intellectual affinity between Sontag and Rieff. to violate the privacy that friends, dead or alive, assumed to be inviolate when they allowed you to know them? Father: Gabriel Rieff Mother: Ida (Hurwitz) Rieff Spouse: Alison Douglas Knox Spouse: Susan Sontag child: David Rieff . Arts Fair Beckett's Eire December 1986 By David Rieff. Biographers often get fed up with their subjects, with whom they have become grotesquely overfamiliar. Once she died, I asked the other people in the room to leave. He could be terse when fielding questions about his relationship with his mother, and he became angry at the notion she suffered a "bad death." There's no gushing between mother and son or deathbed reconciliations. I don't know. . No, I don't think so. I put six questions to David Rieff. I never got to say goodbye. She became the model of an intellectual woman who had both great flair and moral profundity. People have different temperaments. What I discovered was unexpected,. You could set the record straight. Sign up for the Books & Fiction newsletter. Why do people speak to biographers about their late famous friends? So it's wrong for me to read into this that you wish you had put some of your own needs aside and accommodated your mother more? She spoke a lot during her life about how horrified of cremation she was. His mother is essayist, novelist, filmmaker, and political activist Susan Sontag, as iconic an intellectual as our resolutely anti-intellectual culture is ever likely to recognize. Now republished by New York Review Books, it was first released just weeks before its author's early death in 1969. Simultaneously, she wrote of her disgust at the thought of sex with men: Nothing but humiliation and degradation at the thought of physical relations with a manThe first time I kissed hima very long kissI thought quite distinctly: Is this all?its so silly. Less than two years later, as a student at the University of Chicago, she marrieda man! He married his 17 year-old student Susan Sontag after 10 days of courtship in the 1950s. You also write that you wish you'd complied more with her wishes during her life and suppressed more of your own. Guideline Price: 14.99. When Max Brod wrote the famous first biography of Kafka, every future biographer has tried to point out what Max Brod left out. They had sex on several occasions, in hotels. How should she be remembered? But I know it's preposterous. In a tender account of her final illness, her son David Rieff recalls how he colluded with his mother's fantasy that she wasn't dying - and what this ultimately cost him after she had gone, Original reporting and incisive analysis, direct from the Guardian every morning, America, 1967: David Rieff and mother Susan Sontag. Ad Choices. So I don't buy it. The wonderful doctor and writer Jerome Groopman likes to quotes Kierkegaard that life can only be understood retrospectively but has to be lived prospectively. As you say, lots of students simply will ignore/be indifferent to the whole debate. But when the bone marrow transplant started to go wrong soon after it took place, I didn't think she would make it. Help me believe I might make it." She didnt like to sleep. She beat cancer in the 1970s, and again in the 1990s, but third time around she wasn't so lucky. Be consistent. A contributing writer to the New York Times Magazine, and a past contributor to Salon, he's reported on war-ravaged countries and carved out his own reputation as an acute analyst of foreign policy. By David Glenn. But he says, I am anything but certain that I did the right thing, and, in my bleaker moments, wonder if in fact I might not have made things worse for her by endlessly refilling the poisoned chalice of hope., In the end, Rieff realizes that the story he is telling is about ends, the brute fact of mortality. Sontag was not alone in her bafflement about extinction. In the end, I chose to do that. They weren't mine to keep. He conducted the ceremony in Victor and Annie Navasky's front room, with David Rieff and Steve Wasserman as my best of men.) David Rieff has written a sobering and often horrifying account of his mother's final days. Swimming in a Sea of Death: A Son's Memoir. He also edited her journals and notebooks, which contained the following rules. It's not for me to say how she should be remembered. He writes of him with utter contempt. Biography [ edit] Rieff is the only child of Susan Sontag, [1] who was 19 years old when he was born. David, the. Do you think it's not an accident that the area you carved out for yourself as a writer -- going to war-torn countries and covering foreign affairs -- was very different from what your mother wrote about? Your book is remarkably self-effacing. Moser takes Sontag at her word and is as unillusioned about her as she is about herself. David Rieff discusses "Divorcing" by Susan Taubes, an autobiographical novel with phantasmagoric components: the reimagined end of a marriage. I wouldn't have said. I was one of those kids who was always writing stories and thoughts and all that. If that's what it is, there's nothing I can do about it. And she was somebody who desperately didn't want to die. David Rieff on the Novelist Aleksandar Tima, Whose Writing Was an Antidote to Banality and Kitsch. It's too obvious not to be true. The book gives the illusion of life that good novels doan illusion that no novel of Sontags was ever able to achieve. I found a way to be present but not look at the way she had become physically. How many of us, who did not start out with Sontags disadvantages, have taken the opportunity that she pounced on to engage with the worlds best art and thought? In her later years, she had a relationship with Annie Leibovitz, whom Rieff avoids discussing in his memoir, except for. Not only is there a sense of inner peace, but the dying person often has meaningful and profound conversations with friends and family. As an admirer of The Mind of the Moralist, I was intrigued by what the newly opened question of its authorship might mean for both Rieff's and Sontag's legacies. But she made it very clear what she wanted. And I didn't want to go through that. Associated Press articles: Copyright 2016 The Associated Press. I agree with you entirely that she captured the imagination of a certain time and became famous, and then I think did really good work and backed it up. She didn't want to be an essay writer, but she continued to write essays, although they came harder and harder throughout her career. by David Rieff, David Reiff ( 24 ) $13.99 In a shocking and deeply disturbing tour de force, David Rieff, reporting from the Bosnia war zone and from Western capitals and United Nations headquarters, indicts the West and the United Nations for standing by and doing nothing to stop the genocide of the Bosnian Muslims. Sontags pencilled notes in a banal brochure of the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society inspire Rieffs reflection on that astonishing mix of gallantry and pedantry that was one of her hallmarks. He notes my own grave failings as a person (above all, I think, my clumsiness and coldness). The voices of the two characters fuse in a terrifyingly assonant duet. I hope the book is helpful in that way. Well, I'm an atheist too; if anything, more militant than my mother. So I'm not sure it's faith vs. atheism. (en) dbo:wikiPageExternalLink In the early 1950s in Cambridge, Massachusetts, Taubes and her then husband, the rabbi and philosopher of ideas Jacob Taubes, were the closest friends of my parents, Susan Sontag and Philip Rieff. My father had a big library. The mother pleads with the son to tell her that the excruciating treatment is worth enduring because it will save her life. You're saying that's not how she should be remembered in the future? "My mother was a leftist," he said. The chances were indeed stacked against her. I had very complicated feelings, as one does about one's parents. She said she might be ill again, might have some kind of blood cancer. . One time, weren't the odds incredibly stacked against her? I'm not a confessional writer. He married his 17 year-old student Susan Sontag after 10 days of courtship in the 1950s. Born in 1952, Mr. Rieff was brought to New York at age 6 from California, after his parents went through an acrimonious divorce. tell funny things) in his presence. Lauren Bacall., I loved Susan, Leon Wieseltier said. That's a fact. And when she spoke, she spoke about the distant past -- about her parents, about people she was involved with 30 years before. So the suffering was extraordinary. At the age of 82, after two . He was Roger Straus, the head of Farrar, Straus, who published both The Benefactor and Against Interpretation and, Moser writes. I think it's the commonplace guilt of survivors. A SHORTER "DAY'S JOURNEY" May 1986 By David Rieff. David Rieff ( / rif /; born September 28, 1952) is an American non-fiction writer and policy analyst. David Rieff net worth is $1.2 Million David Rieff Wiki: Salary, Married, Wedding, Spouse, Family David Rieff (/?ri?f/; born September 28, 1952, in Boston, Massachusetts) is an American polemicist and pundit. When did you first hear your mother had this form of blood cancer? I can't stop people from writing biographies after her death, any more than she could stop any number of biographies, one of them extremely disobliging, from appearing during her lifetime. He invited her to a New Years Eve party and then left, without a word, with another woman. Moser adds, The incident goes unmentioned in her journals. In another unmentioned incident (until Moser mentions it), Levine is surprised when Sontag tells him that she is going to pick up her son from a schoolmates house: This is not Susan. By David Rieff Sisal Creative illustration for Foreign Policy; Sean Money and Elizabeth Fay for Foreign Policy April 9, 2018, 8:00 AM There is no doubt that the human rights movement is facing. She was the smartest girl in the class, but she couldnt figure out why shewehad to die. As. Why have you taken this active role in your mother's work? Susan Sontag married Rieff the following year. You were probably 12 or 13 at the time. Philip is an emotional totalitarian, she wrote in her journal, in March, 1957. They asked her to say I, to say my body: to come out of the closet. Moser cannot forgive her for her refusal to do so. 1. Everything that could go wrong did go wrong after the transplant. After a few months at Oxford, she went to Paris and sought out Harriet Sohmers, who had been her first lover, ten years earlier. Katie Roiphe, in a remarkable essay on Sontags agonizing final year, in her book The Violet Hour: Great Writers at the End, pauses to think about the strange, inconsequential lies that Sontag told all her life. Welcome; Issues; By the time of Susans birth, in 1933, he had his own fur business and was regularly travelling to Asia. Features. You call her book of photos -- which included pictures of your mother as she was dying and after her death -- "carnival images of celebrity death." How much did that contribute to her dread? No, I think that explains it. ADDRESSES: Home Manhattan, NY. Rieff, whose most recent book was a memoir about the death of his mother, Susan Sontag (Swimming in a Sea of Death, 2008), has returned to the broader themes of his earlier books (At the Point of a Gun: Democratic Dreams and Armed Intervention, 2005, etc. We know no one in life the way biographers know their subjects. Penguin to publish "classic" Roald Dahl books after backlash. Philip Rieff (December 15, 1922 - July 1, . Rieff, Philip 1922-2006 PERSONAL: Born December 15, 1922, in Chicago, IL; died of heart failure, July 1, 2006, in Philadelphia, PA; son of Joseph Gabriel and Ida Rieff; married Susan Sontag, 1950 (divorced, 1958); married Alison Douglas Knox, December 31, 1963; children: (first marriage) David. Whatever the answer is in the higher reaches of philosophy, the particular instance of Nunezs violation provides a valuable corrective to Mosers bleak portrait. In her later years, she had a relationship with Annie Leibovitz, whom Rieff avoids discussing in his memoir, except for one loaded comment about the photographer's "carnival images of celebrity death.". It wasn't conscious but it certainly makes sense. There seems to be a good deal of bitterness packed into that short sentence. I don't want to romanticize the end of life, but we never had the kinds of conversations I would've liked to have had with her. I mean, this book may be of interest because people have heard of my mother. November 11, 2005. Moser accepts her grievances at face value and weaves them into his unsparing narrative. The material on this site may not be reproduced, distributed, transmitted, cached or otherwise used, except with the prior written permission of Cond Nast. They wrote her off in the '70s. "[1], G. John Ikenberry, reviewing Rieff's 2005 book At the Point of a Gun: Democratic Dreams and Armed Intervention for Foreign Affairs, called him "one of the most engaging observers of war and humanitarian emergencies in such troubled places as Bosnia, Kosovo, Afghanistan, and Iraq". But in her lifetime, long before she was diagnosed with MDS, my mother decided they were going to be public. She had preternatural energy (sometimes enhanced by speed). Why people capture imaginations is a mysterious process. Beginning in the 1960s, Sontag became a cultural critic with enormous range, dissecting everything from camp to Marxist critic Walter Benjamin, from photography to how illness is misread as a metaphor for patients' psychology. Although he was not a Christian, his work remains a great gifteven if a complicated and . He, knowing that the treatment has almost no chance of succeeding, tells her what she wants to hear. All public knowledge, to be sure, but who the hell am I to go advertising other peoples sexual habits? There were very good times and very bad times between us. And she was just a sore. Plus, receive recommendations and exclusive offers on all of your favorite books and authors from Simon & Schuster. In Praise of Forgetting: Historical Memory and Its Ironies 160. by David Rieff | Editorial Reviews. I think it would have been grotesque of my mother to have become a person of faith purely in the interest of consoling herself. There was tremendous intellectual affinity between Sontag and Rieff. We had a complicated relationship. He said, "If you want to fight, if what matters to you is not quality of life" And my mother said, "I'm not interested in quality of life." Are any of us, when its our turn?. Sontags love life was unusual. They are specks on it. The other part -- that she made better use of the world -- I don't think that's self-effacing. 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